With provincial and federal officials signaling that strict social distancing measures meant to reduce the transmission of the novel coronavirus could be in place until at least the summer, Canadians are settling in for the long haul.
That leaves many struggling to cope with the “new normal” of no social gatherings, no sports, movie theatres, concerts and more for months to come.
Clinical psychologist Michelle Kimble says with the shocking first weeks of the pandemic’s arrival in Canada now over, people are looking for ways to process feelings of both hyper-vigilance and exhaustion.
“Now we’ve been at home for a very long time with our partners, with our children and we’re also now very, very deeply aware of the level of trauma and the level of loss,” she said.
“So there’s almost a collective grief that we’re all experiencing.”
Stay active, stay focused
More than ever, Kimble said, people need to focus on basic self-care, including getting enough sleep and enough exercise.
There’s a wealth of workout, yoga, meditation and mindfulness resources available online, she said, many of them free.
“Think of having a really finite, structured day. Set your alarm. Get up. Get in that shower and get out of your pajamas even if your work isn’t requiring it,” she said.
“Approach each day with a plan, an intention for what you want that day to look like.”
Samra says while TV and social media can be an important distraction, it’s also key to limit binging on screen time.
The stress of the COVID-19 crisis along with the loss of structure may also disproportionately affect people living with anxiety and depression.
Kimble said it is important for people dealing with those issues to know help is available if they need it.
“It’s so important to reach out. There are mental health teams available that have protocols in place in order to make sure that you have access to mental health support and treatment,” she said.
“While it may look different to what you’re used to in terms of a support model, adaptations are being made and they’re available to you.”
The lockdown has also powerfully affected the way we communicate with our communities, with many people now working from home and finding fewer opportunities to get out of the house.
“It’s incredibly important for us now to maintain our strong social connections at a distance,” said B.C. provincial health officer Dr. Bonnie Henry Wednesday.
“It’s one of the best ways we can take care of ourselves and our families and our communities.”
Henry has stressed the importance of phoning or video-calling the important people in our lives, particularly seniors, and keeping kids connected through virtual kindergarten or virtual play-dates.
And while we can’t physically go out for a beer or a coffee with friends or colleagues, Samra says there’s no reason we can’t do those things virtually.
“Try to think about simulating social interactions a little bit closer to the things we might do in day-to-day life,” she said.
“You can video and watch a movie together, you can cook dinner together, you can eat meals together, you can work out together.”
And while the pandemic means there are limits to the way we physically interact, that doesn’t mean we have to do everything virtually.
Dr. Henry pointed to the daily 7 p.m. cheer for health workers as one way to share an experience with our neighbors.
She said dropping off flowers, groceries or other treats on our friends’, family’s or neighbors’ doorstep is another option.
Canadians have also been coming up with their own creative ways to stay connected with their communities.